Lingam is the Sanskrit word for penis and loosely translates to 'wand of light.' In tantra philosophy, we approach the lingam from a place of the utmost love and respect, the same way we approach the yoni, or vagina. Yes, multiple orgasms aren't just for people with clitorises! Instead, it's about trying to feel more and more pleasure that will become waves of multiple orgasms throughout the massage. The lingam massage isn't about having one orgasm and being done. Unlike your average hand job, the lingam massage involves not only massaging and stroking the penis but can also incorporate more advanced techniques, including the testicles, perineum, and the prostate (aka the Sacred Spot) as well.
A lingam massage is a tantric sex practice focused on massaging the penis.